I remember watching a young child trying to walk. After failing severally and we were watching, the child began to cry. So the child decided to try again but this time we all looked away and that day, the child walked. I mean independently, the child tooks steps on it's own.
Just like that adults or adolescent needs a training on how to be independent and free themselves from others. This doesn't mean we neglect them, it's just giving them space to allow them flourish and manifest their potentials.
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