Men, what you need to know about a strong woman

in #motivation6 years ago

For a healthy relationship, these are few things men need to know about a strong woman

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Excuses.

Avoid giving unnecessary excuses every thing. It's really understandable if something falls through One or twice but don't make it a habit to constantly give stream of excuses. Women accept apologies but series of irrelevant excuses is not acceptable. They may keep forgiving you but not for long as they know when exactly to walk away.
Any guy who is really good at excuses probably has had a lot of practice coming up with them.

Disrespect.

Strong women respect themselves and that is what makes them so appealing. A woman wants a man who will respect her and treat her well, she doesn't entertain any form of harsh treatment or being talked down on or belittled. If her partner does that, she will respect her self by walking away.
Strong women will never spend the rest of their lives with a man who belittle them or disrespect them.

Don't Control your woman.

Some men, let me not say all are fond of controlling their partner, they feel they have right over her life now. Some go to the extent of giving her rules on what to do, what to wear, where to go, whom to talk to and bla bla bla. Infact, they are just like monitoring agents on their partner which is wrong.
A strong woman is an independent women, she has her own life and choose only to let you be a part of it. If you think you can control them, then you'll have to think again.

Lying

Never make it a habit of lying to your partner, try to be honest at all times...
A strong woman is honest, she won't leave you in the dark. She will tell you about her day, 'hey honey i ran into my ex on my way back'. These women are loyal and they will not allow any form of mistrust. They expect you to return the favour, relationships are built on trust and when you give them reason not to trust you, then they call it a quite with you.

Cheating

Don't even think of cheating or playing a strong woman. She won't tolerate it when she finds out no matter how hard you try to justify your action. A strong women stays in a relationship that will promote her to another level and not one that will bring her down. She won't blame herself when you cheat on her because she knows it all about your own insecurities.

Don't keep them waiting around.

You know your responsibility, please carry them. Do not expect her to sit by her phone waiting for your call or message. She knows the value of her time. When she decides to move ahead, she has the confidence to do that without looking back. Don't call her after some days to come up with a story and expect her to hear you. She won't! This is because she knows her worth and its your own cup of tea if you fail to realise that.

Neglect

Never neglect a strong woman, give her all the time and attention she needs, stand by her and motivate her. She will also give you hers, don't expect her to run into your arms when you decide to disappear from the face of the earth only to appear again with some silly excuses.

Self Blame

No one is perfect and a strong woman is not exempted. She makes mistakes just like everyone else.
Do you know what makes her different? She own up to her mistakes and apologize.
A strong woman will never allow her past mistakes hunt her nor dictate her present and future.
One special thing about strong women is that the don't need you but want you. They are choosing you and the right person will see the value in that.
They learn to stop needing people..

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