Bitterness or Happiness? | Life Quote 01

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Do not allow your pain to make you bitter. Turn it into the sweet nectar that your soul contains gives as a sign of strength and resilience after it is shattered. ~ Najwa Zebian

Pain, Pain go Away.

Oftentimes, we encounter situations where we get emotionally attacked and in any circumstances one thing is for sure, "WHEN YOU FEEL THE PAIN THEN YOU CARED A LOT LEAVING NOTHING FOR YOURSELF". The pain caused by the people who you never believe can do it towards you is impactful. You're keep on asking yourself why but no answer will ever suffice and before you knew it, your heart is wounded. DEEPLY WOUNDED.

Bitterness or Happiness?

Yeah we got it. Being in pain is never easy. Emotionally hurt is the hardest feeling you will ever feel. But how you handle it will make a big difference in your life.

  • Be Bitter
    You can watch yourself being destroyed with your bitterness. Eliminate all the soft side of you and turn yourself into a cursing monster. Hate that person who once made you feel happiness. Desert yourself with new opportunities. Cry daily and loose all your confidence. Be aggressively insecure and find your own demons with no cure. The massive anger that can turn you into murderer. Take vengeance even though it hurts your soul. You can choose this path but I assure you, you're not hurting the person who caused you this but yourself. Be a pathetic person begging for affection.

  • Be Happy
    In every sadness, happiness will always find its way to you. It comes in any form if only your heart is willing. Instead of being bitter and loose yourself, turn your pain as your motivation to carry on with life. Stop the hate and just move on. I promise you it will not be easy but so long as you are willing and forgiving, healing will approach you. When your heart is soft, good things will come chasing after you. Always remember that God will never give you an obstacle which you cannot make through. Be like a flower, where bees sting but bloomed so beautifully. Make your pain your strength. One day, you'll look back on this moment and you will be amazed of how strong you have become. Spend every seconds making yourself happy and get off that negativity. Life is good. God is merciful. And I believe the wounds in your heart WILL HEAL. IT WILL HEAL. YOU WILL HEAL.

Reflection

Being in pain doesn't mean you're unworthy of love and affection. It's okay to cry hard as much as you want as it only shows how genuine your heart is. It's okay not to lean on people to help you ease the pain. Being alone during hard times makes you even stronger. Thank those who hurt you as without them you will not be who you are today. The Strong, Happy, Lovable YOU!

But always remember that happiness will only follow when you learn to forgive the people who hurt you. When you finally forgive yourself for embracing the pain and allow it to move forward. Bethink that you cannot forgive others when you have not forgiven yourself. You cannot heal others when you cannot heal your own first. Love your self and stop deserting it from people.


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very good article, with this article we know behind the trouble there must be ease and all the disease there is a cure, thank you once you have made others happy, hopefully you are successful

Thank you for your warm comment @andrian96! Yes, you are right. Everything happens for a reason and its major purpose is to teach you and learn something from it.

Let me add a piece of wisdom I’ve learned from my Dad... It’s ok not to forgive... only when you’re still hurting, give it time but be sure to heal... and come back to forgive those who hurt you.

If i may add something, forgiveness is pretty hard to give to someone who we think does not deserve it. But when we do forgive, we are doing ourselves the favor of forgiving the erring one. We are the one who would greatly benefit from it. And i do agree, time does heal.

absolutely true! 😊😊😊 bitterness will only cause you harm to others. I've been there before, it takes time to heal but when you begin to strive, its such a relief!

Absolutely true Ate. If you will let the circumstances and emotions take over you, then you have lost the fight.



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Just write your fear, doubt, revenge, anger in a sheet of paper then burn it

in life there is happy and difficult.
#appleskie

True @andyvir. And how you react and deal with each circumstance is what will matter the most.

the important thing is you have to keep walking patiently and at the end there is a victory

Wow Keep your spirit @appleskie :) Love yourself before loving others

Love this @appleskie
I have this watch word I try to keep to no matter what "stay happy and stay alive" so I try as much as possible not to allow any occurrence affect my happiness

Thank you so much @estherikott! No matter what life brings us, we must face each day with appreciating life and giving happiness.

Forgiving means healing yourself too.