Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 57: What gender do you prefer your child to be?

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Hola amigos 👋, It's very important to be a good parent and child. Having the opportunity to chose between the boy child and the girl child isn't easy because each have they separate roles to play.

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Everyone in this platform was born by a woman and everyone has a man to call Dad. Best of luck to all the contest participants.

Boy or girl child, which do you think is more expensive to train? Give your reasons

In the process of raising children it is more expensive to train a female child.

Here are my reasons

  1. Training a girl requires a parent to put they time in raising, looking after, encouraging, and caring for the child by supporting her into her teenage and adulthood in other to avoid making mistakes.

  2. Training a female child also depends if the family has the financial capabilities of raising the girl by providing her needs.

  3. The female gender (girls) often tend to be mislead by they peers (boys in particular) to ruine they lifestyle and Heath status in future which will lead a parent to constant discipline of the child.

  4. Girls tend to follow the trending clothes, jewelries and accessories in town in other to look good and my tend to follow the male gender if they parents don't provide this things on time or at all

If you were to be a parent today, which gender do you prefer to have as your children? Give us your reasons

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If I am a parent, I would prefer to have a male child because of the following reasons.

  • The male child tend to always follow what they are taught during they child birth which means you can train your boy to become a gentleman and responsible.

  • The male child also tend to listen to the advice of they parents faster than the female child, which makes him exceptional among the girl child.

  • Boys hardly give they parents tough time in terms of they whereabout because they will either be in they male friend house or the field playing football.

  • The male children are those who will absolutely remember they mother and father due to the kind of training they gave to him, unlike the female child who may be wholly concerned about her family than her mother 🧕 in the future.

  • The boy child usually has this interest of making their mothers proud of them, with this motive of making mother proud, it becomes more easy for the mother to nurture the boy in the right part.

  • The boy child are often regarded as the means through which the family lineage can be continued, also as a means of preserving the family name. This is also on of the reason I and most people prefer to have a boy child instead of a girl child.

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During adolescence, which gender shows tendencies to go out of control? Why?

During the adolescent stage maturity in humans, the girl child as we all know tend to show a sign of going out of the parents control. Here are my reasons.

  • The girl child during this stage usually have emotionally comfort that she is in love with a guy and starts to disrespect 😡😤 her parents due to the guys advice and influence.

  • The girl child often feel that her parents don't love her due to the proper training they are giving her which will make her feel that her choice would be best for her.

  • The girl child tend to develop interests and relationship outside the families relationship which then causes her to possess self-Independence and will lead to disrespect of parents.

  • They also then to go out of control because her brain is preparing her for the day when she is going to be on they own.

What do you think about the statement; "what a boy can do, a girl can do better"?

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The phrase which says that "what a boy can do a girl can do better" is a means of exercising the act of gender equality, this was made to empower and encourage girls. This was for the purpose of promoting fairness and equality, this was to ensure that the girl child has confidence in her self.

I will like to invite @aspiya, @josepha, @mainuna, @anthony002, @onomzy001, @saintpaul17, @rme, @john247, @bonaventure24 and @ahmneska to participate in this contest.

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"Wow, what a thought-provoking post! 🤔💡 I love how you've shared your perspectives on parenting and the differences between raising boys and girls. It's so refreshing to see a discussion that encourages empathy and understanding. 👫💬

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