I agree with you that there some behavioral traits that live and overtake us when we've learned them just simple.because they are now part of us.

Also, the good deeds of our parents are sometimes observed to make way for us just as you've narrated about your mother's being available to assist all.

Good behavior are like human personnel investment that cut across generations. You already earned one from your parents.

Be strong and cry less as we must always endeavor to forge ahead despite the past.

Thanks for sharing, Boss👍