1. Randomly lose your temper and yell at others

This is a manifestation of poor emotional management of children. Parents should not indulge their children to vent their emotions to others because of their young age, yelling when encountering unsatisfactory things, or even tantrums others. This is a very uncultivated thing. . If children are allowed to develop this kind of low-level EQ mistakes, the children will not have a particularly smooth journey into the society, because there will always be someone who will take care of their parents.

2. Talking ill of others behind your back, chewing your tongue

When a child is young, when he encounters unhappy things in kindergarten, or encounters people who make him unhappy, he will complain to his parents. In serious cases, he will speak bad things about other children in front of his parents. This behavior is not small or big, but once you develop this bad habit of chewing the ears, your child will suffer a lot when he grows up. Because people with high EQ understand one sentence: There is no impermeable wall in the world.

3. Don't know how to care about others, only care about selfish behavior

Nowadays, the parents of children are more squeamish, and it is easy to develop a self-consciousness and selfish behavior. They only consider themselves and do not consider others. If this kind of child is still the same after growing up, then the emotional intelligence is really worrying. Because of this style of being in the world, it is destined to have no good popularity. And a successful person comes out by relying on the vast network of people around him.

Parents pay attention to the development of children's emotional intelligence since childhood, which will make it easier for children to obtain happiness, and it will be easier for them to achieve success when they grow up.