Your opinion matters/Week #18/Experience gain from hardship/

Assalamualaikum how are you Steemians. Hope you all are well. I am good too By the grace of ALLAH ALMIGHTY💕. My name is Jia and I am on steemit as @jiya99 Today I'm going to participate in this contest.

Life is a journey.
In some chapters, we fall.
In some, we will gain experience.
In some, we get hated.
In some, we are loved.
What is the best way of spending life?
We should learn from other experiences rather than going through them.

Let's take an example if the person is too innocent and always people take advantage of that person we are saying that the person is being used. So we should learn from his life that being nice is good but being too nice and innocent will make you suffer. You should take care of yourself and save yourself from evil rather than suffer from that by being nice.

Change yourself by seeing others' lives. This is intelligence. Why do you make your life go through experience rather than you should change your life by seeing others' experiences?

I have experienced evil people. Now what do I do? I changed. But I changed by passing through experiences.
It will be good for me if I should observe others' lives.
I am trying not to take sympathy. Now I have realized why would I talk to anyone. No one is that worthy to listen to our stories.

We should keep our secrets to ourselves. Your best friend has a best friend too.
Have you heard what the hardest fall in life is? When you don't expect you favorite person to be changed.

Don't allow yourself to be attached to someone. Everyone will eventually leave you.

Just as we have read this story about a disabled girl who didn't give up and fight.
What should we have to do? Take the experience of her life and implement it into your life.

Never give up you don't need a hand to pick you up. You should believe in ALLAH ALMIGHTY and stay stuck to the place so firmly that no one can push you. You should be capable of letting go of toxic people. Don't make your life hell because of one person.

If someone left you don't make your self feel pity. You should believe it. That this is ALLAH'S will that the person doesn't deserve to be at your table. ALLAH listens to those conversations that you don't.

Inviting @solperez @inspiracion @jannat12 to participate in this amazing contest.

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